There are times when we are stuck with a dominating partner, who loves to call the shots in the relationship. Their way of “my way or the highway” becomes the norm of the relationship and one cannot do anything about it.  

However, a relationship involves constant adjustments from both parties, and if one of the partners is consistently dominating, then the relationship will not survive for long.

If you suspect you are dating a  “dominating girlfriend”,  here are certain hints that validate your suspicion:-

You need to take Permission

You are expected to get permission from her before finalising any plans with your friends, whether they involve coffee, cocktails, bowling, or shopping.  There is an unspoken norm in your relationship that requires you to seek her consent before undertaking any action. And if you do not, she loses her patience and starts arguing with you within seconds.

She will NEVER say “SORRY”

She has difficulty accepting her faults. She believes that she is always correct, and the word “sorry” does not exist in her vocabulary. Even though you are not at fault, you are the one who apologises at the end of every argument.

You have lost your Private Space

It does not bother her to check your cell phone and read your talks without your permission. She does not hesitate to interrupt you when you are speaking with a friend on the phone.

She Controls the Finances

Whether it’s your or her money, she like deciding how each penny is spent. She expects you to inquire about her in making a purchase. And it doesn’t take long for her to lose her mind if she finds out you have made any excessive expenditures without alerting her.

She Has the “REMOTE”

Always a romantic comedy is preferable to an action film. The remote is in her possession whenever you are watching television together. She believes that the plot of all action films is identical. And what if you attempt to debate? She accuses you of being uncaring about her emotions and accuses you of being self-centred.

Your Boyfriend Duties

You cannot avoid a certain set of obligations. For example, you must transport all of the shopping bags, repair the broken hair dryer, and walk her pet. Moreover, these responsibilities must also be performed on weekends.

She Dictates the “Sex Life”

Tonight, it is up to her to decide whether she will sleep or have sex with you. The day you drop a hint about having some night-time fun, she dismisses it by claiming she is too exhausted. Importantly, she determines the postures and foreplay actions according to her desires.