There are a few different ways to act like the bigger person. It might look like offering up an apology — telling the other person that they're right about something — or simply responding to them in a way that is both respectful and constructive. New York-based psychotherapist Rev. Sheri Heller explained to Psychology Today that being the bigger person is ultimately defined by a "willingness to find common ground and achieve resolution, even if each person's reality differs." So, when should you go this route? 

When you're stuck in an argument that's been going in circles and causing stress and frustration for everyone involved, being the bigger person is a smart initial approach if your goal is to calmly end the conflict. Take a breath and really try to understand the other person's point of view for a moment. Can you understand where they're coming from? Can you empathize with them and leave it be? Sometimes you can, and sometimes you can't.