According to Bumble, users should be themselves and have fun, be specific, and stay positive. It's good advice because though you may find a person attractive, a negative attitude can cause you to swipe left quickly. Consequently, the "I promise I won't judge you if...." prompt can be slightly tricky. You don't want to write something that someone might innocently do.

Though it's often done on dating apps, you may want to avoid controversial issues. After all, you don't want to lead with things you don't like. How often have you seen "If you voted for this person, don't swipe right on me" or "If you are/are not vaccinated, just move on" in a profile? True, it tells those with opposing views to keep on moving so you don't waste your time with someone you can't gel with. Yet it also adds a twinge of angst or hostility that isn't conducive to meeting new people.

The worst thing is to write something in the "I promise I won't judge you if..." prompt if you will judge them for it. Being judgy isn't an attractive quality, and this isn't the place to get political, moral, or profound.