In 2022, a fake headline went viral on Twitter: "Julia Fox opened up about her 'difficult' relationship with Kanye West 'He didn't like when I went goblin mode.'" Although the "Uncut Gems" actor claims to have never used the term, it did open up a larger conversation regarding goblin-led dating. In the wake of the pandemic, there's been an increased push-back against aesthetic-driven content. Whereas TikTok's "vanilla girls"  and viral "clean girls" advertise flawless skin and impeccable beige wardrobes, goblin mode celebrates uncurated authenticity. Ultimately, leading with your true self can help you find a compatible partner who will appreciate you for your weirdest habits and maybe even shares one or two of them.

The bottom line? In the early stages of dating, we're often committed to putting our best foot forward. However, it's honesty that will strengthen your relationship, not perfection. In other words, if you sometimes use your shirt instead of a napkin, that's okay. Lose the filter. If you like to sing show tunes on road trips, go for it. Talk to your potential partner about everything from pet peeves and politics to baggage and boundaries. As Julia Fox never said, "if he can't handle me in goblin mode, he doesn't deserve me at all." Plus, make sure your commitment to being "that girl" isn't suffocating your inner monster. After all, hiding your quirks to satisfy a partner is never a good sign.